【再為人母】張名雅疑患產後抑鬱憂心忽略大仔爆喊

Dec 29 2018

女性產後很容易受荷爾蒙影響而情緒低落，除了擔心新生兒的健康外，有多於一個孩子的母親可能還會害怕忽略了哥哥姐姐的感受。現年31歲前港姐張名雅日前誕下二兒子Milo，近日她在社交網上大吐再為人母的憂慮，說自己曾抑鬱大哭。

撰文：Angel | 編輯：Chloe | 圖片：張名雅 IG

張名雅憂心照顧初生B忽略大仔爆喊

張名雅今天在社交網發文，指自己由懷孕開始已經哭過好幾次，因為她害怕自己只顧著小兒子會令大兒子呷醋。

她用英文留言：「我聽說過婦科醫生說有些父母將重心傾向照顧新生BB，因而忽視咗了哥哥的故事。其中一個案例就有個七歲的男孩告訴父母他能夠照顧好自己，反而主動要求父母專心照顧BB，就這樣看，他真是一個很明白事理的哥哥！不過有一天，這位小朋友忽然告訴媽媽，他其實很不開心，媽媽聽完後即時淚流滿面，即使大仔當初說不用擔心，但自己卻沒意識到照顧新生BB會傷害到大仔…當我聽完這樣故事後，淚水就不受控地狂標出來……」她認為自己情況相同，感到背叛了大仔Mario。

她又表示：「大仔Mario第一次知細佬Milo仲係一個BB，當佢見到爸爸、媽媽睇住或抱住Milo時，就扭計Keep住喊，見到佢喊，我個心深深被打咗下！Baby Milo同Baby Mario，爸爸、媽媽用愛創造咗你哋兩個，我哋永遠愛你哋！相信好快，你哋兩兄弟嘅愛會隨成長而滋生❤️兄弟萬歲🙌！」

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So, I have cried several times since my pregnancy. When I found out I was pregnant, the first thing that came to my mind was O M G I will have less time to spend on/with Mario and I felt like I have betrayed him. I had teary eyes. Another time it hit me was when I heard stories told by my gynaecologist how some parents tend to focus on the newborn and neglect the older brother. One case was a behaving seven year old kid telling his parents that he will be able to take care of himself and asked them to please focus entirely on the newborn. He was such a thoughtful brother! One day the older brother came back to his mom telling her he was actually upset. The mother bursted into tears. She didn’t realise focusing entirely on the newborn could hurt the son because he told them not to worry. This time tears uncontrollably ran down my cheeks. Another time was when Mario first noticed sai lo Milo is a baby (not just my babybump haha). He continued crying seeing mi mi or ba ba looking at or holding baby Milo. The way he cried hit my heart! To Baby Milo and and Baby Mario: Mi mi and baba created the both of you with love. We will always love the two of you with all our heart! Soon the brotherly love will grow and the two of you will realise how great it is to have a brother! ❤️ Cheers to brotherhood 🙌🏼 Second photo is Baby Milo 👶🏼 Third photo is Baby Mario 👶🏼 #babyMilo #babyMario #momofthree 😏 #hubby #alsoababy #全素顏 #nofilter #messyhairdontcare #sitmoon

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希望張名雅不要太難過，小孩呷醋也是人之常情，媽媽不用太自現，只要好好分配時間給大兒子便可以了。兩兄弟一定會相處得愈來愈好，一家人和和洽洽。

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We wish you a Merry Christmas! 🎅🏼 P.S. silent night not so silent lol #MerryChristmas #babyMario #babyMilo #december #2018 #silentnight

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31歲張名雅宣布順產誕子

張名雅同律師老公Joe結婚後，火速造人成功，去年誕下兒子Mario，依家囝囝已經1歲。今年7月，張名雅出席劇集《BB來了》宣傳活動時，宣布再次有喜，透露已懷了4個月身孕，BB將於12月出世。更大方公開二胎係囝囝，並已改英文名叫Milo。

昨晚佢喺IG透露準備生仔，仲留言：「See you soon Baby Milo！」今日下午，佢宣布順產囝囝Milo終於出世喇，仲喺IG上載咗自拍照，留言話多謝各位祝福！

大膽半裸曬肚

張名雅早前，喺 ig PO 出一張半裸孕照，雙手遮胸，側身挺住巨肚，露出成個背脊，既性感又有美感，仲留言話：「Never stop trying something new! 😉 The human body is the best work of art. More maternity shots coming… stay tuned（不斷嘗試新東西！人類身體是最佳藝術品。）」仲話呢張相已經係自己嘅極限，其他嗰啲會做私人珍藏⋯⋯唔通有影更性感嘅？

除咗影大肚相之外，張名雅仲同老公、大仔順便影埋全家福，曬吓幸福先！

大仔Mario仲學媽咪一樣，曬一曬性感。